Now may our Lord Jesus Christ Himself and God our Father, who has loved us and given us eternal comfort and good hope by grace, comfort and strengthen your hearts in every good work and word
( II Thessalonians 2 : 16-17 )
What are condolences?

In the event you are unable to attend calling hours or the funeral service, it is appropriate for you to send a note expressing your sorrow for the family's loss. A condolence note need not be long, simply sharing your concern and perhaps a statement about your relationship to the deceased and why that person was important to you is enough.